Transformative Consultation

Affordable consultations made available to individuals, couples, families, and organizations.

About The Books

Available on Amazon!

Dr. John’s kind and wise words have helped thousands of individuals heal from their
traumas.

TRANSFORMATIONAL

From Emotional Pain to Happiness

Are you wondering what brings happiness? Are you looking for the one psychology book that puts it all together for you? Transformational Living is a book that finally encompasses parent education with evolving your own life.

God Didn’t Do it

It is written for the individual who is seeking a deeper understanding of God, the world in which we live in, and the reasons why things happen to us.

Making Movies in Our Minds

Making Movies in Our Minds was written for the scholar practitioner as well as everyday individuals seeking practical ways to ease anxiety.

About The Author

Dr. John has close to thirty years of experience working as a clinician, specializing in assisting individuals heal from emotional trauma, anxiety, depression, and attachment issues. He has also worked as an educator, trainer, and researcher. He has trained thousands of early childhood educators, parents, teachers, social workers, school counselors, psychologists, and attorneys on a variety of topics, including attachment, understanding the traumatized brain, and enhancing education for every child. Dr. John is the author of several books, including Making Movies in Our Minds, Connecting in a Disconnected World, and God Didn’t Do It.

Testimonials

Testimonial 1

My son at two years old was diagnosed with ADHD. His pediatrician prescribed medication to assist with his “busyness”. After about 3 months we saw no change in his behavior and we decided to take him off the medication. Our son displayed anger through aggressive and violent behavior. He mistreated our family pets by pulling their tails and standing on them. He also punched and kicked holes in the walls in his bedroom. Our son refused to make eye contact and called himself a “bad boy”. He scared the children at his school by chasing them and growling at them. He would throw sand and hit the other children. Even some of the parents were concerned about our son. We had taken him to therapists who did play therapy with him, but the progress was VERY slow. We could not stand by while our only son continued to destroy our home, terrorize our pets, but also isolate himself from our family and friends through his vicious, destructive behavior.  I believe that our son would have ended up in jail for a violent crime, even murder.

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Testimonial 2

Before our work with John Trentalange began, Rafael was exhibiting outbursts of anger which would be triggered in a flash and unleashed in a fury. The deployment of his father to Iraq preceded the behavior and it continues to manifest during his prolonged absence. I was becoming exhausted emotionally with trying to find a way to manage this crisis.

Throughout our sessions we have learned new ways to connect…reconnect, as well as methods to use when his emotional volcano erupts. It is a continual work in progress, but I am feeling we are moving in the right direction.

A milestone Rafael has achieved so far during our time with John Trentalange is that he now can usually circumvent any emotional outbursts and physical manifestations by communicating his need to be close to me…to need a hug with words versus threatening actions. This is HUGE! Rather than hugging and being close to each other after thirty minutes or more of trying to work through the angry outbursts, it often now precedes and thus prevents such a scene.

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